Books of 2015, #16: Without You There Is No Us: My Time With the Sons of North Korea's Elite, Suki Kim
In case you really thought Democrats were turning the US into a police state
This was a Daily Show pickup. Totalitarian regimes have always fascinated me---too much reading about the Russian Revolution while acquiring my Political Science degree, I guess.
The setup is simple: Korean-American woman talks her way into the faculty of a college set up and run in North Korea by an Evangelical church in order to (covertly) observe and report. After roughly 9 months---a summer term and a fall term---she can't take it any more.
I have observed that many people I know who lived through abusive childhoods have a sometimes slippery relationship with truth. Not so much about objective facts---though sometimes that's an issue---but more about their relationship with the world and how they feel. I assume it's a habit deeply ingrained, from a time when they needed to present a certain impression even as their lives were full of abuse.
Imagine a whole country that is driven relentlessly to that sort of behavior---that is so xenophobic and isolated that it can almost, but not quite, be made to work; so the mask slips only occasionally.
The book is well written, and absolutely bleak as fuck. There is not a smidgen of suggestion that things are going to get better any time soon. I appreciate the honesty and forthrightness that represents, but it doesn't make for happy reading.